Tough situations,makes decisions easier!

Ever been in a situation that you are faced with a decision so difficult and so meaningful to you that you could instantly decide what is the best course of action? Well recently I've been put in a situation like that in more than one area of my life, but I will go into details about the situation I've been put in my emotional life. I find it strange that sometimes we realize how much a person matters to us only when we are put in a situation that she could leave from our lives completely. Why must we always be presented with extreme settings to always make the decisions we subconsciously want but can't seem to realize? It makes me wonder how many times,things would have been easier if we could find earlier that what we wanted was just in front of us. It is never pleasant but now I understand, that sometimes things have to be difficult in order for us to really find out what we really need in our lives.

The chocolate box.

The topic I choose this  morning is a metaphor. The idea I am trying to highlight is that the people you come across in your life are like the different chocolate flavors in a ordinary chocolate box. Some may be very sweet from the first bite but turn out to leave you with a very bitter taste in your mouth. Some may not seem so interesting from the start but in the end  you will be  wanting more and the last type I identified is the ones that from the first taste you will be engulfed in very powerful sweet taste that will leave you hoping that it will last forever. On my road through life I came across all of this different flavors and in my humble opinion the second one might be the best because it is the most balanced of them all. Why not the latter? Because it is to overwhelming and although I love it the most if you can't take another bite the bitterness will be as powerful as the sweet taste from the beginning. There are still so many tastes and varieties that I have not come in contact with but I know something. That someday all of us will find a chocolate that will make us want it everyday for the rest of our lives...