Second chances?

Never liked this idea too much because it implies that a person did something wrong ,you forgive them, offering a second chance to prove themselves. Sadly, in most cases ,they disappoint time after time, chance after chance and things never actually get better.In my humble opinion the mistake is in ourselves, because people do not deserve a second chance right away. They deserve a second chance only when they can convince you that something is actually going to change. Only when their actions can speak louder then their words.All the other times we should be foolish to trust that things are going to get better.But, this happens so rarely and that is why people deserve more than a second chance, because after many trials and errors then can, in the end show you that the second chance was worth it. Do not lose hope in people around you, always try to see the best in them, because we human beings are so flawed ,that it takes some time until we can do the right things.Believe in them and you will see that this time will truly be the time they really deserved that second chance!